I recently came across a song by Kelli Pickler “Best Days of Your Life” and at first I thought it was awesome! It is about a guy regretting leaving a girl and how when he was with her that was already the best days of his life. For anyone who is going through heartbreak this is a great message it helps get you through and realize that the person that left was the one is is now going to miss out.
Right after my ex left one of my friends sent me the above picture and it made me feel great! This is what I needed at the time I needed to believe that he was making a mistake, it was what helped me get through the day.
But I found once that heart break begins to heal (in my case at least) I have come to the realization that yes my ex left me but he left me for a reason and maybe the best years of his life are still ahead of him (I truly hope so).
We all want to feel vindicated, but that does not mean that we all are. Sometimes love just ends and it isn’t a bad thing it just means that you get to out and find it again!
So my state motto is “Live Free or Die” and apparently this goes for divorce also! All I am waiting on now is for my ex to sign the papers then we can file and anywhere from 2 weeks to 2 months later we will be divorced! No waiting period, no appearance in front of a judge all we have to do is take a parenting class and wait for the judge to sign the papers.
It is a weird feeling to be excited for this all to be over, I think at this point I am just ready to move on and begin my new life. It’s nice living in reality.
I will always look at our marriage fondly but I am now ready to close that book and throw it in the fire! (Just kidding!)